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How Does Divorce Affect Adult Children?

Gray divorces are on the rise in Florida, and throughout the rest of the country. A gray divorce is one in which the people ending their marriage are over the age of 50. These divorces have several issues that are not generally present in other cases. One of these is the fact that gray divorces often involve adult children. While many people think a divorce will not have the same emotional impact on adult children as it does on younger kids, that is not true.

What are the Emotional Impacts of Divorce on Adult Children?

Even though adult children may not have to worry about where they will live after the divorce, or how often they will see their parents, they will also have unique issues they must deal with. Many therapists claim that for adult children, seeing their parents’ divorce causes them to view their family, and their family history, differently.

Adult children may feel guilty, particularly if they believe their parents remained in an unhappy marriage for their sake. It is for this reason that it is not generally advised for people to stay together for the kids. Eventually, the children will learn about the conflict during the marriage and they may blame themselves even more for it.

It is not uncommon for children to feel angry when they learn about their parents getting a divorce, regardless of their age. For example, if the marriage ended because one parent was unfaithful, it becomes very easy to blame them for the divorce. Still, how an adult child reacts to a divorce may also greatly depend on their own marital experiences and their level of emotional maturity.

How to Lessen the Emotional Impact of Divorce on Adult Children

It is natural for many parents to assume that adult children can take the news of divorce easier than when they were younger. Unfortunately, that is not true and parents must continue to remain vigilant and aware of their child’s feelings. Parents should treat their adult children the same way they would if the child was younger. This means not pressuring the children to take sides, or trying to blame or alienate the other parent. Regardless of your child’s age, they do not need to know all the details of your divorce.

The type of divorce you get may also play a role in the impact on your children. If you can go through mediation or the collaborative process and reach a settlement about alimony and the other terms of the divorce, that can greatly help lessen the emotional impact on your children. Although necessary at times, litigated divorces are some of the most contentious and harmful for the entire family.

Our Family Lawyers in Orlando Can Help with Your Divorce

Divorce is difficult, but working with an Orlando family lawyer can help make it easier for you and your kids, no matter their age. At O’Mara Law Group, our skilled attorneys can help you through the divorce process and ensure you receive the fair settlement you are entitled to. Call us today at 407-634-6604 or contact us online to schedule a consultation.

 

 

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